It might not be the fault of the other member, sometimes it is the fault of the post office. I just had the same thing happen to me. You go into your transaction archive and marked the dvd as haaving been received there.
I will sometimes select pm the member. Then when I am on the message page, click on their member name.
Once you get to their profile page you can view their tower and wishlist.
I also check the tower of anyone who request a dvd from me.
Age of Heroes
Battle New York - Day 2
Beneath Hill 60
Broken Trail (2 disk)
A Chinese Ghost Story 2
For Greater Glory
New Fist of the North Star, vol 2
Language of the enemy
3 Extremes II
Let the Bullets Fly
Love, Wedding, Marriage
Legend of the Red Dragon
Record of Lodoss War: Chronicles of the Heroic Knight (4 disk set)
Spirit Warrior: Revival of Evil
Tales from Earthsea
Wolf Rain: Leader of the Pack
Wolf Rain: Paradiseand Poison
Give 'Em Hell Malone (Blu-Ray)
My Name is Khan (Blu-Ray)
10,000 AD: Legend of the Black Pearl
Farscape: The Peacekeeper Wars (2 Disk)
The Gospel of John (3 disk)
A Better Tomorrow
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Also it depends on the collection time for the box. The one I use is picked up M-F at 11am. Anythink mailed from it Sat and Sun is not picked up until Mon.