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|Close to Leo |
Ws Sub Ac3 Dol
Actors: Yaniss Lespert, Pierre Mignard, Marie Bunel, Rodolphe Pauly, Jérémie Lippmann
Director: Christophe Honoré
Genres: Indie & Art House, Drama, Gay & Lesbian
The heartwarming story of 11-year-old Marcel and his older, gay brother Leo, who has AIDS.
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interested_observer | San Francisco, CA USA | 07/01/2004
(4 out of 5 stars)
""Close to Leo" ("Tout contre Leo") shows the destructive impact on a 12-year old of the decisions made by older family members to hide personal information and feelings.Marcel (played by Yannis Lespert) is the 12-year old. He has three older brothers, Leo (Pierre Mignard), Tristan (Rodolphe Pauly), and Pierrot (Jeremie Lippmann), all around 20 years old. After some introductory scenes, the movie really starts with Marcel going off to bed but coming back to hear the father of the family (Dominic Gould) ask the others not to tell Marcel that Leo is HIV-positive, because Marcel is "too young."Marcel is soon acting a bit strangely and asking indirect questions. The mother (Marie Bunel) evades the questions. The other brothers make hints but back off on telling the story. Marcel does get some reassurance and information from the mother of one of his classmates.Leo takes Marcel on a trip to Paris, where Leo hopes to rekindle a romance with an ex-boyfriend. Marcel hears from Leo that Leo is indeed very sick and very gay. After a while Marcel is able to figure out that that Leo is also very unhappy with his situation and with taking his meds. Leo puts Marcel on a train back home to Finisterre (western Brittany), saying that Leo is counting on Marcel to lighten the atmosphere back home. Then the movie goes on to its brief, unhappy conclusion.Family life is filled with touching, hugs, kisses, sharing beds (non-sexually), and apparent good humor. Marcel finds himself having to counterbalance this with the adults' rapid mood swings and sudden distancing. The alternation of childhood intimacy and adult discretion, followed by trauma, finally gets to Marcel.The boys are frequently not fully dressed, and the older brothers go skinny dipping. There is one sex scene for Leo in Paris.Secrets are damaging, and talking through problems is helpful; the plot is successful, in part because, like Marcel, the audience is not told everything. The main actors, Yannis Lespert and Pierre Mignard, do a fine job. Other than some trailers, there are no extras. The actors' names are not matched up with their characters' names in the credits. The movie is in French with optional subtitles."
We Are Family
Grady Harp | Los Angeles, CA United States | 07/04/2004
(5 out of 5 stars)
"CLOSE TO LEO as written and directed by Christophe Honore is one of the most sensitive, warmly human stories to be captured on film in recent years. This small but very touching film radiates the beauty that can be found in families devoted to each other, a type of love that seems all too rare these days.Leo (Pierre Mignard) at age 21 is the eldest of four sons of a small family in a little town in Brittany. Leo is gay and is completely accepted for his lifestyle by his parents (father - Dominic Gould and mother Marie Bunel) as well as his younger brothers Tristan (Rodolphe Pauley), Pierrot (Jeremie Lippmann) and the youngest , 11 years old Marcel (Yannis Lespert). When Leo discovers he is HIV positive, his family is supportive and plans to look for the best treatment and care. However, their discussion and closeness to Leo is not shared with Marcel who is 'protected' from AIDS information the family feels would be damaging to Marcel. Problem: Marcel overhears the discussion and is enraged by his exclusion, forcing him into destructive behavior with his little friend. Ultimately Leo accepts his family's advice to seek treatment in Brest and Paris and decides to take Marcel with him on his journey for help (and for a assignation with a previous lover). As Leo's difficulty in facing his disease grows in intensity, he sends Marcel home and the ending of the movie is a sensitive climax best left for the viewer to absorb alone. Not only is this story one that restores our belief in the sanctity of family, it also presents a potentially cataclysmic topic with such reverence for privacy and for understanding that it becomes a major accomplishment due much more visibility than it has gained. The glowing warmth and tenderness displayed by the father for his children and his wife, the beauty of the brotherly love as presented in the performances by these understatedly substantial actors, and the incredible dignity that Pierre Mignard and Yannis Lespert as Leo and Marcel bring to their roles is astonishingly fine. This is a quiet, profound little film about family. It merits your attention, not only for viewing but for a place in your film library. In French with excellent English subtitles."
Good story...Great acting
R. Force | Colorado Springs, CO | 08/30/2004
(4 out of 5 stars)
"Lovers of foreign films will find this movie a gem. Unlike most American offerings, foreign productions rely on human relationships and emotions to drive the plot rather than sterotypical situations and characters. This film is no exception. The movie, which is more about family bonds at a time of crisis then it is about homosexuality and the horror of AIDS, is candid and enthralling from beginning to end. The relationships between the family members is touching, and at times inadvertently strange, especially if you're from an American family. The love they have for one another comes across very strong and actions like cuddling while sleeping in the same bed and incidental nudity among brothers (things considered inappropriate in other cultures) are not in any way sexual but simply a natural part of family life. In my opinion a good movie allows you to think about bigger issues. While watching "Close to Leo" I couldn't help but wonder how much stronger and stable people, and in turn societies, would be if most families were like this. Maybe cultures in general have been too quick to demonize and think of such activities as suspect or improperly sexual. Even the family's questionable decision to keep the plight of Marcel's favorite brother a secret is made out of concern and compassion not selfishness or malice. The climax of the film does contains graphic sexuality and nudity between Leo and a hostel keeper, but it is done in a very realistic and poignant way. It is here where the audience is able to see how Leo's deep familial love enables him to make a final unselfish choice. By deciding to change his previous wanton behavior and send Marcel back home alone from Paris, he makes the decision to take possession of his own pain over his death and refuse to allow anyone in the family to take it upon themselves.
Definitely a "must see" if you get the opportunity."
Both sad and life-affirming, warm family drama
Bob Lind | Phoenix, AZ United States | 10/26/2004
(5 out of 5 stars)
""Tout contre Léo" ("Close To Leo"), a 2002 film made for French television, recently released in the US on DVD, is a remarkably warm drama about a close and loving working-class rural family in crisis.
Leo (Pierre Mignard), the oldest of four boys (ages 11-21) is openly gay and accepted as such by his siblings and loving parents. But when Leo reveals he was diagnosed as being HIV+, the family decides to keep it a secret from 11 year old Marcel, who actually overheard the revelation. Marcel, beautifully acted by Yaniss Lespert, "acts out" a bit to dispel both his hurt feelings at being "left out" of the discussion as well as his feelings for Leo, with whom he has an unusually close bond. Following some medical tests, which apparently show the infection is progressing, Leo feels his life is over when he is put on a tedious drug "cocktail" regimen, and decides to "take a holiday" to put his feelings in perspective. He agrees to Marcel's plea to tag along, not knowing that he is aware of his illness. When Marcel confesses he does know, a conflict ensues since Leo is still very much in denial about the whole thing, and just wants to have a good time.
In one climatic scene, Leo attempts to throw away his meds, and Marcel grabs a handful of the pills and tosses them in his own mouth. When Leo forces Marcel to spit them out, the reply is that if Leo wants to kill himself (by not taking the medications), then he doesn't want to live either. This shocks Leo into realizing that, if he indeed is making the decision to shorten his life by not sticking to the drugs with their potential side effects, he has to consider the impact watching this would have on Marcel and the rest of his family. Deciding to send Marcel home, they say goodbye (assuming it will be for the last time) at the train station, in what is the most emotionally charged scene of the film.
A warm, loving, sensual and endearing film, which is both sad and life affirming in parts. The acting is generally first rate (The exception was Marie Bunel as the mother, whom I thought was badly over-acting, even in the context of dealing with her oldest son having a potentially fatal disease.) French with English subtitles, some nudity and sexual content, DVD special features limited to previews of other films."